Are We Still Brothers

[Ngimanene na Muchere]

Mnajua vile siblings humaliza high school na moja "anaonekaniwa" and flies out of the country for further studies leaving the other one behind. Anaenda ulaya and establishes a life huko, and there's no physical presence just virtual and phone calls. 15 years later mujamaa anarudi, familia in tow for the holidays.
Nimetoka kula Ngimanene na matumbi na jamaa ameniambia his brother is here visiting, haven't seen each other physically for 15 years and it's terribly awkward. "I know he's my brother, but I don't know him. A lot changes in 15 years"

 

[Cortedivoire]

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[Relic Hunter]

Nikama toka utotoni hawakuwa ana bond.

 

[Ramiran]

Nikama toka utotoni hawakuwa ana bond.

Pengine msee anaishi bedsitter kayole na bro anatoka majuu na ma achievements na doh mob

 

[bigDog]

It's expected. You grow apart from your siblings once you have a family. Anglia relationship ya your grandparent na siblings wake.

 

[Giggz]

It's expected. You grow apart from your siblings once you have a family. Anglia relationship ya your grandparent na siblings wake.

Depends on the bond you had and level of maturity you share. Also parents inculcate a level of closeness and respect amongst peers and kids.

 

[Ngimanene na Muchere]

It's expected. You grow apart from your siblings once you have a family. Anglia relationship ya your grandparent na siblings wake.

Do you call your brother to hang out, ama unapeleka watoto wako to hang out with his and vice versa.... That's one of the many ways to maintain a close relationship

 

[Young_Turk]

Speaking from experience, maintaining this relationship is not easy.

If it feels awkward, then its because you are still living in the past.

You are both grown and now you need to do grown men things.

Do you call your brother to hang out, ama unapeleka watoto wako to hang out with his and vice versa.... That's one of the many ways to maintain a close relationship

This is excellent advice.

Hang out and go out together.

Just be sure not to fall into bad habits za kitambo.

You are both grown adults. Zile za kitambo zibaki kwa photo album.

Make new traditions as family men.

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AS is suggested here.

Remember that you both have grown. The issue usually comes when people are stuck in the past.

Once upon a time mlikuwa manmeza ma keg JKUAT campus pamoja.

Now elevate. Si lazima Eka Hotel but something new.

Get a new hobby that you can both enjoy even when far apart yenye haiko kwa bar.

Online gaming, excercise/sport kama mpira ama basketball, car/bike enthusiasim etc.

Thats how you stay close and grow together.