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This woman, a former girlfriend, is in my view a study in narcissism and borderline psychotic behaviour. I met her about 6 years ago when she was a very young divorced singo matha of one boy, then 4 years. We had an on-and-off relationship for a year-and-a-half through a lot of drama.
In 2019 her first ex-husband died through a tragic accident and she soon married another dude. They got a second kid who's now about 3.
Crazy thing is, the other day she calls and says we need to meet.
She's bored in marriage, she told me, and her in-laws are crap. She wants out.
Without batting an eyelid she then says: "You know, I think the time we spent together was the best. I was just young and stupid to have caused so much drama. I now know the value of a mature man."
I looked at her, stunned. I mean, this bitch somehow thinks I am such a sucker as to somehow move in and help her raise her two brats by two different men? Or perhaps become her emotional pillow to cry on? Who the ferk does she think I am, a washed up duster?
Now, I don't want this to be a singo matha bashing thread. We've already done all that with the 16-year old billionaire Azhor Ahai on the other side.
Just give me your thoughts on the situation and how different men are from women psychologically. Help me comprehend why a woman cannot understand that we men naturally don't like raising other men's children.............................
In 2019 her first ex-husband died through a tragic accident and she soon married another dude. They got a second kid who's now about 3.
Crazy thing is, the other day she calls and says we need to meet.
She's bored in marriage, she told me, and her in-laws are crap. She wants out.
Without batting an eyelid she then says: "You know, I think the time we spent together was the best. I was just young and stupid to have caused so much drama. I now know the value of a mature man."
I looked at her, stunned. I mean, this bitch somehow thinks I am such a sucker as to somehow move in and help her raise her two brats by two different men? Or perhaps become her emotional pillow to cry on? Who the ferk does she think I am, a washed up duster?
Now, I don't want this to be a singo matha bashing thread. We've already done all that with the 16-year old billionaire Azhor Ahai on the other side.
Just give me your thoughts on the situation and how different men are from women psychologically. Help me comprehend why a woman cannot understand that we men naturally don't like raising other men's children.............................
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