Hata wazee wakitoka kukunywa busaa ama chang'aa hawaingiangi hao direct, wanapatrol shamba na kuzusha loudly eg kwa nini ng'ombe hazikai kushiba? This alerts wife kama ako na mtu ndani amhepeshe faster.
Funny you noticed that @Clemens. A very clever bloke right there. Why, you ask? Because the woman gave a very valid reason for her philandering.
Desertion, as she claimed, is a reasonable ground for divorce. It is as weighty legally as her infidelity.
Any one of them has reasonable grounds for decree nisi but more so herself as his indiscretions happened first triggering her response.