Can't those facts be more stubborn?
You see you can finish above every team every year and beat Mufc senseless, but ever since 2020 it won a single trophy. To me that's stable already.
In fact, I have seen people quietly give a girl some money to deliver to her husband so that he can top up and pass it on to the family. The girl will tell him that she borrowed something from her chama. If he has no huge ego, he chips in, and the whole thing gets sorted.
Recently, my village uncle was telling me that now that his Gen Z daughter ametoka soko, he wants to demand a 2M Dowry payment for her.
Then I advise him to truncate a zero from the figure so that it becomes 200k.
My reasoning was that he is even lucky she'd found someone to marry her and...